Northern Italy (ATP Finals Trip - Part 2)
Landed in Venice, the city of water. |
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With ferries, I got as far West as to overlook the edge of the Adriatic Sea. |
A very historic city, I wanted to witness the land of Marco Polo and complete his reverse route through Northern Italy by heading West (Part 1).
I rode the Le Frecce high-speed train to Milan for the ATP NextGen Finals - Travel Photos.
ATP NextGen Milan
That pitstop at ATP NextGen in Milan was showcasing the top young stars (aged 21 and younger). Serendipitously, I met up with the mom of our hometown San Diego Open champion Brandon Nakashima! My mother was also born in Vietnam originally.
I stayed a couple days to see the famous Domo and Last Supper. Milan is a very fashionable and hipster-friendly city
The ATP NextGen Arena location itself looked like a large indoor high school gymnasium. Lots of Italian kids and families. Fans enjoyed the flashy light and sound show. It's the junior version of the ATP Finals event. He concluded the season by winning the tournament, beating several top players along the way.
A couple of days left before arriving for the ATP Finals in Turin...I still needed to decide where to go next. My eyes scanned the map and the weather forecast.
In that region's shoulder season, November is typically known for rain and cold weather. Not yet cold enough for snow, yet too cool for most fairweather tourists.
Enter Hemingway - Stresa, Italy on 11/11 @ 11AM
From the Stresa central train station, I made my way to an AirBnB real (modernized) Italian castle with the original exterior on 11/11 - Armistice Day. It was the day when the guns fell silent at the end of World War 1.
Overlooking the island, I spent the night across Isla Bela. It was near the hotel viewpoint where Ernest Hemingway wrote "Farewell to Arms". With no car, I decided to cover the entire area on foot. Its downhill roads weren't designed with sidewalks in mind.
The following day I decided that instead of going South back to Milan again, I would detour North towards Switzerland. Near the Italian/Swiss border was a lifetime bucket list.
The Mountain peak in the Swiss Alps called the Matterhorn was pinned with a heart. Like a siren beckoning me on my Google Maps, it called out: Matterhorn!
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Paragliding for the 1st time. Soaring through Zermatt. |
Mapping and Mountaineering
"No matter what you do, building a start-up will be a very challenging journey…if you don’t start with enough passion, you won’t get to the other side. If you don’t fall in love with the problem, you simply will not be able to get through the journey.”
- Uri Levine (Co-Founder of Waze) "Fall in Love with the Problem" (2023)
The key luck factor was the weather forecast. It was nothing short of a miracle in November to get clear skies and 50s a high temperature! With just a short 48-hour window, it was now or never. Time to go for it.
Eagle's Nest
I booked a last-minute little AirBnB. One only crazy backpackers (or last-minute cowboys like me) would even consider. With this once-in-a-lifetime chance, the detour is the adventure. The Obstacle is the Way.
This began the first leg of many to reach Zermatt (basecamp for the Matterhorn). Several trains, buses, shuttles, and 2 lifts later - I would reach snow. The start of a long hike to reach the final jump point.
Lost in Translation
At Stresa's main train station, nobody was working at 6:30 AM. I had to rely on using the automated Italian train ticket machine. I typed in my destination, "ZERMATT." The error screen flashed back "No route found". I tried several times again with the same result: "No route found." Uh oh.
I pulled up Google Maps again and saw I'd have to make a few transfers. Maybe this system would only take me halfway? Reaching Zermatt would take a few different national transportation systems (an Italian Train, then a Swiss Train). I ate a quick Italian cafe breakfast sandwich, then waited outside.
It had two platforms - A and B.

15 minutes left. Still no staff working yet inside the station. Nobody was even inside the window counter. So I go outside seeking assistance from one of the other passengers who would likely know. I found one Italian lady also waiting. She stood confident, posed like a regular daily rider.
Her: "Brig? No, you need to take the other platform..."She pointed me to go to the other side.
So I even check the printed train schedule on the sign post. It listed train's arrival at Stresa with the departure times. The difference was only 4 minutes off from the ticket's actual time. Close enough, or so I thought...
Getting on the Wrong Train
My best option was to stay on until the main station.
I could rebook once I arrived at the main junction town of Domodossola.
Accepting my fate, I sat back down and enjoyed all the little towns and cows along the way.
Switzerland's Ride to Ski Resorts
After my transfer from Brig to Riga, I noticed a big contrast between the surroundings.
This was Swiss ski country!
It was still early in the season, yet so many passengers were going there for a weekend mountain getaway.
The Italian train staff at the station advised me that I need not bother with a refund. Just show them your (Trenitalia) stub; she assured me it should be fine. Nope.
Swiss trains were noticeably cleaner, quieter, and well-staffed.
Clear, large-paned windows reveal Nature's glory.
Tickets, please!
Young train staff stood posted at the SBB red trains. No getting around them. They wore satchel bags, serving as mobile kiosks. They were well-armed with point-of-sale card readers around their necks and pockets full of literature. I showed them my old stub and explained the simple mistake. But they weren't messing around.Sorry. You can't board Swiss trains with Italian tickets.
Ah, lost in translation. I took out some Euros.
From all these extra detours, I lost some weight. So did my wallet. :)
On board the train, I received an Airbnb text from my host.
I had notified him that I'd be running an hour behind schedule.
The text reads:
"no problem."
"Hey, do you still want to go paragliding?"
"the paragliding pilot, Bruno, will meet you at Grampi’s."
My host knew a local guide named "Bruno" who could take guests up if the weather permitted. For days, we had exchanged messages. This flight option would be only possible if wind conditions were favorable. It was essential to check the local weather forecast from Tarasch or Zermatt, not outside.
Apparently, fate wanted me to go fly on that day.
(Skip to Story: Bruno and the Air Taxi)
Scaling up is one part Grit, and two parts Audacity.
It is an ice-cold wind tunnel test of facing repeated hurdles, uncertainty, and rejection.
Change is hard. New is risky.
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CES 2023 Eureka Park - Gallery of Flops - the Startup Graveyard |
In the book "Cold Start Problem," Andrew Chen describes the hundreds of thousands of new startups in the US annually. Linking sufficient self-propelling supply (the Hard Side) with increasing demand is often the challenge in Network Models.
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” - Beckett
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"If you don't like extreme sports, maybe a start-up is not for you" (Uri Levine, page 36) |
Anchors are everywhere - ready to ground you down to their level.
Prepare for people ready to tell you it won't work and why you're crazy.
"People don't like change, and your new start-up is a change." - Levine
Gathering light feathers for a pair of wings.
Build a solid team that reinforces the other like bonding glue.
The secrets of real discovery await you in these dark woods (of Tal).
"The door is going to open for a slipt second.
Whether you choose to jump through it or not, it's not going to be there very long."
- James Cameron (MasterClass)
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Zermatt's Swiss graveyard. Miners who paved the way and paid the cost of conquering a Mountain. |
Climbers don't get to pick their destiny - conditions pick the climber...
I studied the forecasts and had a backup route if things go wrong.
Eternal Optimism - the humility of sponsorship, fundraising and eating your own dog food
Travel teaches you how to rebound from setbacks.
It's why my HS Physics teacher had us learn to cold call parents in high school.
(We don't talk about) Bruno and the Air Taxi
"I'm Bruno. Follow me - we have no time to waste if we are going to catch the next train up!" When I arrived at the meeting point, he said this would be a hard push if we wanted to make it.
So immediately before he even fully discussed the price or details, he had me wheel my luggage to his ski office about a half-mile away. Luckily, he had an extra pair of snow boots and a parka he could lend me before we ascended.
Trapeze artists take their hands off - fly or die; there is no try...
To be a great entrepreneur:
Be ready to trade that "bird in the hand" for that "bird in your heart."It is with blind faith that you can forge across the midnight current.
A solo journey that each man must decide to take alone.
No worrying or ruminating about worst-case scenarios or past mistakes. They won't do you much good now. Don't panic. The skill in the Trapeze is being comfortable. At that moment of no momentum. It is a silent pause. A weightless release. Timing is by feel, as much as it is by sight.
Let go of the bar! Reach for the next rung.
It is there. Even when your heart stops. Reach.
A coach must show you that it has been done before.
Prepare your re-entry back to Earth.
Return. Smoothly or suddenly.
But you will return.
With the one-way ticket, move up. Don't plan on returning the same way as you went up. "Burn the boats."
The easy road is to ride a gondola, enjoy the vista view, and then return home with a selfie.
To come this far and fail is not in me.
Don't look back one day only to regret not maximizing that potential.
Knowing I was only there for that one day.
Be proud of going for it, for trying where others have turned back.
Para-Waiting: lessons in patience from Fishing
It is a game of chicken with the wind and nature. Sometimes you prep everything perfectly and get all the details right, yet you don't get your shot. Sometimes it is the right idea at the wrong time. All you can do is put it all out there and pray to the Wind Gods for the fateful breeze.
Ready to cast into the falling tide.
As counter-intuitive as it may seem, this is the best time to go fishing.
Embrace running against the wind.

It's like waiting for your college acceptance letter.
Waiting weeks or months. Assigning a dollar value to your baby.
Sometimes you expect a possible counter.
It will feel like an eternity. Many sleepless nights.
Is this how Icarus felt?
Take two.
He seemed confident we would try and succeed soon. The red wind socks began to flutter again. This time for a few seconds longer.
Now, the cliff moved too far away from my feet to reach. That was my point of no return.
It envelopes you in its heavenly hug.
Airborne.
Art of letting go and not looking back
When you look down off that edge, it is best to look ahead.
Anyone with great anxiety about heights (or fears of bankruptcy) should not step on that deck.
So don't have those regret in your heart. I lept (or rather just kept running), looking straight ahead.
Visualize the line, and stick your landing.
Luck will always get a dance with success.
TopCourt: MasterClass for Tennis - my Covid Startup
The Founder (2017) - on Netflix
- Magic of the Speedee System starts on the Tennis Court with the McDonalds Brothers.
- How Mc'Ds architected the World's Most Successful Hamburger Franchise
- Mortgaging his own home to build the first golden arches.
- Why Franchise quality control is impossible with too many cooks.
- "The idle rich": how it's hard to feel the inner fire once you're too comfortable.

Advice for new founders or board advisors
- Join the Stanford LEAD program!
- Take the Business Models Class by Prof Haim.
- The journey starts each Spring and Fall.
Learning to smile again
At some point, you have to accept the facts:
Gravity has you by the balls. Air doesn't care. Bank accounts weigh nothing.
As the saying goes...
"Life is short, and so are my legs."
(NIH studies on the benefits of being short)
ABC: Awaken, Begin again, and Continue climbing.
Waiting for the first light to set out is a mistake.
- Reunion with my Italian friend Cristina from Roma
- Meeting the largest tennis racket collector in Europe
- Surviving a bad back on the floor at an Airbnb
- Getting lost at Interlaken
- More Trains!
- Nitto and their 700 Euro corporate seats
- A meeting with fellow tennis travel vlogger, Mr. Tsitsipas
- My overall impressions of the ATP Finals for 2023